I moved here 73 days ago.... We are getting married in 32 days..... We are moving to Arizona in 38 days...
I really like Oklahoma (the state), it's really grown on me, I've met some very nice people at work and I really enjoy the routine that Oklahoma and I have fallen in to. We seems to glide seamlessly as if we were meant to spend our lives together... I love this man more then anything, and I as his future bride I support him in his decisions...
One day I was doing my hair and he was outside with the kids, he came into the bathroom and said, we are leaving, I'm done here... I thought it was the heat of the moment because the ex was up to her antics.... A few days pass and he brought it up again... I kept quite and didn't push the issue just supported his concerns and complaints of being here...
I come from a very close family, they are my support and I couldn't imagine having siblings turn on me the way I have experienced some of the family here doing.. We owe no one any explanations, however when people create a toxic environment for others, the best thing is to remove yourself from it.
So through a lot, and I mean A LOT of prayer things started to fall into place.. I applied for a job with my former hospital system, and I was offered a job at one of their brand new facilities that has yet to open.
After the wedding, we will return to Oklahoma and pack up and make the move back to Arizona......
Another new adventure for us to embark on... ;)
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Brittney~I tell you this from my heart and from my own personal experience..
You must do what feels right in your hearts and what is right for your immediate family. The same things have happened to me, but from my own family not from Ty's, and I can't tell you in depth how painful it is to have your own family turn their backs on you for choices you make that are made solely for well being of your immediate family.
Ty's family is alot like your family, very supportive and loving to no end. If it wasn't for the love and support I received from Ty and his family, I would have never made it through all these hard times.
When I look back, I realize that making those choices we made to better our families well being, I realize it was ALL WORTH IT...even if it upset & hurt people. At the end of the day,I rely on Ty and my children to make me happy...as will you with Corey. I wish you the best!!
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